Here comes another day that I get to talk about signs a person is controlling but let’s look at why someone could be controlling

• They have no control over their life hence they decided to control the lives of others.
• An important figure in their life was controlling hence they developed the same habit.
• The do not want to see you succeed.
• They want to feel in power
• Lastly unhealed trauma.

There are so many reasons why a person is controlling and above reasons were just among the few.

Signs of a controlling person

They always make sure you are fully dependent on them

If you depend on someone it simply means they are the ones that provide, that’s where controlling begins because they will give you whatever you need based on when they feel like and however they feel like.

It’s like being a storekeeper and for people to access any materials from the store they need to come to you. They also get to know what happens in your life through providing for you and this establishes even more control over your life.

They poke noses in your business

If there is one thing that is common among controlling people is, they always want to know what’s going on in your life so that they can know which aspect of your life they can control,because how do you establish control over something or someone that you don’t know so well?its impossible.

They sabotage you

Sabotaging comes in so many ways ,it could be crushing your esteem so that you never believe in yourself enough to break free from them, creating doubt in you is also another tactic especially if you attempt to start something new for example trying to start a business they might try to tell you how inadequate you are or even go behind your back and tarnish your business name because at that moment they feel threatened that you are going to break free.

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They lie to you

No human being walking on this earth as a control freak will ever tell you the truth ,lies are part of their controlling package ,they must twist stories to favour them and have control over you.

They lack empathy

Which empathetic person in this world would be okay with taking someone’s free will from them?None.It takes empathy to know it’s not right to treat someone in a certain way because its hurting them.

Always playing the victim

This mostly happens if they get caught and they play the victim in order to manipulate you and blind you from the truth for example if you complain to your possessive boyfriend/girlfriend how he/she has been controlling you in your relationship in return they claim you were the one giving them stress hence they cope with it through controlling you.

They are always around you

Purposely to know what you do,where you go,who you hang out with,there are high chances when someone is controlling you, you barely have any friends because they ensure they clear out everyone from your life so that nobody enlightens you about them being controlling.

If they are not always around you they could keep tabs on you through calling you or texting you or other people.

Breaking free from controlling people is possible do not spend your entire life thinking you are bound to them or you deserve to be there.

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