By Charity Mwengi

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Minding your Own Business

This involves being in your own energy not caring who is doing what.This brings your energy and attention inwards whereby you get to grow.

Ask yourself how much time and energy do you waste when you poke your nose in other people’s businesses?

how many times have you gotten into trouble for getting involved in something that does not concern you? how many times has trouble come to your doorstep because you were in other people’s business?

its not too late to start minding your own business and ignore them if they call you a snob and if someone is trying to bring other peoples business to you just say no.

I mean it’s your life you can say no whenever you want and make life easier

Having Control Over Your Jealousy Will Make Your Life Easier.

I know some of you are going to say I’m never ever jealous, come on we are humans and humans have emotions and among the many emotions that we have jealousy is one of them.

I define jealousy as wanting what others have ,and as we go through life at some point we get jealous of others,for you to make life easier control that by either letting go of the jealousy or working hard to be as successful as they are,or ask them for help.

If they don’t want to,trust me there will always be someone out there who can help you get there.

If influencers out there are making you jealous on Instagram or whichever app how about you stop looking at their pages for sometime.

I see jealousy that is not dealt with as going round a circle over and over again here is an example:

let’s say you are stalking someone on social media ,everyday you always wake up to check what that person has posted. 

That really triggers your jealousy throughout the day hence you find yourself cursing and throwing tantrums and after that you meet/call your friends to negatively discuss that person hoping something bad happens to them. 

That’s the circle I was talking about you’ll keep doing the same thing over and over (checking and cursing) and it doesn’t make life easier you will keep on going round and round before you know it a lot of time has passed you by.

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Having The Right Friends

Friends friends friends this is something that has been talked about countless times ,the people we call friends play an important role in your life growth.They either add value or take it away.

Type of friends

• Genuine friends( they make life easier)
• Friends who use us
• The kind that hinder our growth
• Seasonal friends(the ones in your life because of what’s happening in your life at that time)
• The ones who are loyal to our status
• Our loyal buddies
• Friends who are only friends because of proximity
• Occasions based Friends
• Family friends
• Friends based on competition
• Spy friends (they report to your enemy)

One day I’m going to discuss this type of friends in my articles ,but for now refer to the list above and get know which friend do you have and how do they impact your life then decide what’s the next step you want to take.

Maintain Good Health

This is the most important thing that can make your life easier ,it should have been the the number one thing but I’m gonna leave it at number 3.

Your health is everything it’s  like that one brick stone in the middle that when  removed the whole building collapses.

How to maintain you health:through the usual things you have heard before ,work out I didn’t say you have to go to the gym if you can’t afford it use what you have around you like climbing stairs,skipping rope,sit ups and whatever form of exercise that works for you.

lack of affording the gym membership should not be an excuse, Eat healthy foods,go for regular health check ups. 

Whenever you’re sick go to the hospital a disease might be detected in its early stages,maintain good oral hygiene,bad oral hygiene can lower your confidence especially if your mouth stinks.

Maintain good overall health by all means and just to add there are 7 dimensions of well being that need to be maintained which are Physical, Intellectual, Environmental, Vocational, Social,Emotional and Spiritual

All these 7 dimensions of well being need to be balanced focusing on one more than the others  can bring about imbalance.One day we will talk about this.

Maintain healthy Boundaries Will Make Life Easier

You have heard about boundaries before or seen them in every single article you read ,have you considered that maybe that’s a sign you need boundaries or do something about your boundaries? Well seeing something repeatedly is never a coincidence pay attention to the message.

When you have healthy boundaries you tend to decide what stays in and what stays out and this makes life easier.And who doesn’t want an easier life?

Being Smart 

I don’t care if you’re a saint ,a loyal person,a disciplined person ,whichever category of a righteous person you belong to this is life you have got to be smart enough to see all the trickery coming your way,to know how to acquire opportunities and lastly how to live,survive and exist among humans.

Humans are not the most pleasant beings to live around they can make your life easier dream to forever be a dream that’s why you have got to be smart enough to have it easier.

For example let’s look at acquiring opportunities if you are applying for a job. You tailor your Resume/CV to match the job description ,You research about your interviewers to know the type of employees they prefer just ensure you turn yourself into their ideal employee isn’t that being smart? 

How many times have you lived quietly in your sanctuary and someone comes to you with some form of manipulation just to get something from you?

You haven’t used them or manipulated them before or even offended them in any way but they still come to try and take advantage of you, be smart enough to know you always need to be on the look out for drama it can come from all directions without you even triggering it.

Having A Positive Mindset 

Nobody wants to be around someone who is always thinking negative things are what is always going to happen,I mean can you please stop talking ?Thank you.

Here is something I always believe whatever you put out there is what you get so stop self sabotaging everything has its opposite the opposite of negative is positive so they can’t always be negative all the time.

Having a positive mindset will get the stress off you and motivate you to keep going because you believe good things are coming your way. 

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